Wedding FAQs

How many guests can we have and how long can we stay?

Maximum capacity for the venue is 60 people (including the couple getting married).

Weddings are usually held on Saturdays, with Ceremony to be held at 4pm.

Note: During school holiday periods you may be able to have an earlier ceremony.

PRICE LIST

CEREMONY ONLY

Admin fee: £140.00 | £250 per hour (min. 2 hrs)

Departure is 5pm

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CEREMONY & DRINKS RECEPTION

Admin fee: £220 | £250 per hour during office hours | £300 per hour after 5pm

Departure is 10pm (or earlier)

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CEREMONY, DRINKS RECEPTION & MEAL

Admin fee: £360 | £250 per hour during office hours | £300 per hour after 5pm

Note: All prices above are basic prices. Events Assistants / Room decoration etc. are extra).

Departure is 10pm (or earlier)

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EVENTS ASSISTANTS

£15 per hour (one/two staff members are required depending on number of guests).

Events Assistants provide a drink service, assist guests and clean/tidy up.

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Can I self-cater / bring caterers in?

You can self-cater, however, you will need to hire professional caterers to serve, and clear up, the meal, and our Events Assistants for serving your drinks reception. We can provide you with details of local caterers who are familiar with The Didsbury Parsonage, however, should you opt for a catering company of your own choice they would need to visit the office to plan/co-ordinate their service. We would require a copy of your caterers’ third-party liability insurance.

Caterers need to be made aware that food cannot be cooked on the premises as we don't have adequate facilities. They can however bring their own ovens to cook in our Courtyard area.

For safety reasons, we don’t allow hot water urns; if you want your caterer to serve hot drinks, they will need to serve the drinks and provide hot water flasks.

Can I hold a stand up buffet for my reception?

Yes, but food cannot be prepared onsite it must be brought in by outside caterers.

What about crockery and cutlery?

Your caterer should provide all crockery and cutlery, which they can then remove at the end of the night. Only clean crockery / glasses can be left overnight for collection the next day.

Do you provide glasses?

We can provide glasses free of charge. We have champagne flutes, wine glasses, tumblers and pint glasses. Check with your caterer what they can provide, e.g. they may provide glasses for the meal but not the drinks reception.

Do we need to pay a deposit?

We require a deposit of £150 to confirm your booking - this will be deducted from your final invoice.

We also require a returnable deposit of £200 against damage, which can be paid immediately prior to the event. (This will be refunded in full after your event, assuming no damage is caused).

Do we need to hire chairs?

Yes. For chairs we recommend Eventhire Ltd 0161 494 5213/ 0788 9205628. They regularly provide chairs for most of the weddings at The Didsbury Parsonage. If you choose another supplier they will need to liaise with us about when they can deliver, set up and collection

Is there a car park?

No, however, there is some street parking on Stenner Lane or you can use the Pay & Display carpark behind The Didsbury pub situated across the road.

Do you have tablecloths we can use?

Yes. Our standard tablecloths are dark red and can be provided at no extra charge. Your caterer may supply tablecloths, or we can order them in for you.

Sizes required as follows: 70” x 127” (to fit long trestle table) / 70” x 70” (to fit square table)

What about drinks?

We don't have a licence to sell alcohol so you need to provide your own drinks. We have a standard size fridge for storing a small number of bottles which is usually adequate for drinks reception only. If you require a large capacity drinks fridge we can order that in for you, approx. cost £205, accommodating 100 bottles.

Can we have music?

We have a CD/Bluetooth/USB music system, which is free of charge, or you can bring your own. If using our equipment we advise a practice run prior to your event. Live music is permitted, although space may be too limited for a band.

Out of courtesy to our neighbours, we ask that the music is turned off at 9.45pm.

Anything else we need to know?

If you are having a meal here after your ceremony, meal take place in the same room your ceremony (Room 1). The layout of Room 1 will be setup while Events Assistants are serving the drinks reception in Room 3. Your caterers, or members of your party, will need to prepare tables and any table decorations.

We can accommodate up to 60 people for a sit-down meal - 40 in Room 1, and 20 in Room 2.

We have limited, domestic-scale, waste facilities, so you and your caterers will need to take rubbish and recycling away on the night. Clean plates/glasses can be left overnight to be collected by 10.00 the following day.

Please note that the Parsonage is an exhibition space and artwork cannot be moved or taken down.

Part of the charm of the Parsonage is its beautiful oak floors, which are regularly polished and maintained. Oak floors and high heels sadly aren’t a good mix, so we would ask you to avoid wearing high heels if possible.

Can we use the Parsonage Gardens?

The garden in front of the Parsonage is a public park, and not included in the venue hire.

Can we decorate the room?

Setting up decorations the day before is possible, but may incur a small fee depending on the setup timescales. Please be aware that our walls more often than not feature an art exhibition, so decorations must not disrupt the artwork. Feel free to use our step ladders; although it's recommended to have two people for setup.

*It is your responsibility to use the ladders safely. The Didsbury Parsonage cannot accept responsibility for any accidents/injuries incurred during their use.

To avoid setting off our intruder alarm, kindly let us know your decoration plans beforehand. Certain items like balloons may trigger the alarm overnight. You're welcome to remove decorations the following day.

We also have some small glass vases and jars you are welcome to use for your flowers decorations, which can be borrowed the week before.

Table decorations should be arranged after the furniture is set up on the day of the event. Coordinate this with your caterers, as it will be their task to lay tables Please ensure tables are cleared entirely by the end of the event, allowing us to dismantle and prepare the room for the following morning.


Kindly be aware that table confetti isn't permitted (it tends to stick in our floorboards!) and only battery-operated candles are allowed, not live-flame ones.

Exit Confetti

We kindly request that petals/dried flowers be used instead of paper confetti. However, if you preference is for paper confetti, it must be biodegradable, and we ask that you check with the DPT staff to confirm if it's permitted.

WEDDING BOOKING TERMS & CONDITIONS

 

1. A booking deposit of £150 is required to secure your booking, this will be deducted from your final invoice.

Payments should be by bank transfer (we cannot take card payments) to: Didsbury Parsonage Trust, sort code 40-31-20, account number 41467433.

The booking deposit is fully refundable if you cancel your event up to three months before the scheduled date. If you cancel less than three months, but more than one month before, 50% will be refunded. If you cancel less than one month before, the booking deposit is not refundable unless there are exceptional circumstances. We require a returnable deposit of £200 against damage. This will be refunded in full after your event if no damage is caused.

2. The final invoice will be issued 6-weeks before the date of the event, to be paid in full two weeks before the date of the event.

3. We ask that you assign a Responsible Person for your event, and provide the Trust with a contact email and phone number for this person. This person should be a third party, not the bride or groom. The person is to act as a liaison point for Trust staff on the day. Further details will be sent to the Responsible Person prior to the event.

4. Artwork on display at the time of your event must not be touched, moved or altered in any way. The cost of any damage is payable to the artist who owns the artwork.

5. No candles or any naked flames are permitted in or near the building.

6. Petals/dried flowers are preferable to paper confetti. However, if you preference is for paper confetti, it must be biodegradable, and we ask that you check with the DPT staff to confirm if it's permitted.

7. Balloons/bunting or any other decoration that may move in draughts of air cannot be left up overnight, either before or after the event, as this will set off the intruder alarm.

8. We have a 10pm curfew, when all guests should leave the venue.

9. ALL rubbish and recycling must be removed after your event, either on the same day, or 10am the following day.

10. When you make a booking with us, we will add your email address to our monthly newsletter to keep you up to date with our events. Please advise if you prefer not to added to the newsletter.